Let’s take a moment to talk about NSA, relationships. No, not the NSA that monitors everyone's phone and data and hacks the leader of Germany. NSA means no strings attached
- no feelings, no commitment, just a fun, carefree relationship. So what exactly can you do to have a great no strings relationship minus the drama?
Don’t expect to cook or be cooked breakfast
Let’s face it folks, we all like a warm cooked breakfast. Just ask rapper Ty Dolla Sign who’s gone as far to say “You gone cook the eggs cheesy with them grits or naw?”. While pop culture may pressure females to cook their men breakfast (and that's a good thing), cooking breakfast is a bit overzealous for a first time no strings relationship. Simply put, you should probably forego hitting a breakfast hot spot altogether unless you want to insinuate you want something more from the relationship.
Don’t spend the night on the first hookup
Spending the night after a strictly causal (and no strings attached-style) hookup is not a great idea. It’s best to leave shortly after the hookup ensues. Your partner probably just wants to sleep in their bed, carry on with their life, and not be distracted by entertaining company. You, on the other hand, should be doing a good job to not appear needy or attached. Leaving shortly after hooking up accomplishes this goal and is the quick and breezy way to take care of the breakfast bullet point discussed earlier.
Do Expect the Unexpected
Let’s be honest, when there’s no strings attached, things can get weird. The best thing is to expect the unexpected. Maybe you or your partner wants to try something new in the bedroom; maybe you’ll hook up in a peculiar place, it all depends on the vibe. Some people use no-strings hookups to blow off steam and relieve stress while others may use no-strings hookups to try new things or experience their sexual fantasies. Since everyone is different, and certainly can have different expectations, intentions, and styles for casual no strings hook ups, it’s best to always expect the unexpected.