It's not as easy to land a one night stand like it is in movies -- believe me, I've tried.
It seems so easy when in reality it's the most nerve-wracking thing anyone could probably do. If you have friends who brag about them all the time, they're either lying or in rare cases, they're actually just that good at flirting.
Either way, you probably wish you could be like them, or any of the other men in the world who do manage to get one night stands whenever they want.
But what's their secret?
That's what we're here to share with you today. Chances are, if you ask anyone you know who actually do have one night stands on how they do it, they'll mention one, multiple, or all of these five hacks.
Implementing these hacks into your technique when searching for a one night stand will help you land that hottie you've been eyeing, and you can do it in as little as one hour.
Now, let's get into the hacks.
The first hack to finding a one night stand is so easy you don't even need to leave your house!
Your best wingman has been right in your pocket this whole time, you just never knew it. In case you hadn't noticed, dating apps are pretty much the way people meet nowadays. It's totally common to hear, "We met on Tinder!" now, and even more common to hear that your latest hookup was a "Tinder hookup."
In addition to dating apps, many people have also started using hookup and casual sex apps, made specifically for people looking for no-strings-attached sex!
Although you can luck out on Tinder, these are the apps you want to be using for the best chances of getting laid tonight.
Everyone on these apps is looking for the same thing, so it's easier knowing anyone you chat with will be up for a one night stand.
Some apps you can use are PURE, Feeld, CasualX, Hook Up Dating (hud), and even more!
You could search the Internet for the hookup app that best suits your needs.
There are apps for BDSM hookups, threesomes, one night stands, etc.
Literally anything you could think of, there's probably an app for that.
Hookup apps are a great way to find a sure hookup anytime you want. All you need to do is download them, build your profile, and get to chatting!
On the other hand, if you're planning to still go out and try your luck with face-to-face interactions, then good for you!
That's honestly the best way to land a hookup -- it's easy to tell in person when a girl wants to hook up with you, and she can see if you're really attractive or not.
It works out for everybody.
However, it's not always easy to try to fuck someone in a real-world setting because you never know how it's going to go.
People who try to hook up with someone they just met are surely bold, but if you do it the right way, and watch out for some specific behaviors from the person you're trying to fuck, you'll always be successful.
What are these behaviors you should look out for?
Well, for starters, you should make sure she's looking around, or better yet, looking at you.
Eye contact is a good way to tell if a girl is into you before you approach her or ask her to hookup. If she's busy with her group of friends, not seemingly looking around the room for a guy to take home, but just enjoying time with her people, it's best to leave her alone.
However, if you see her scanning the room for someone to meet her gaze -- be that person. Make sure when her head turns to you that you meet her gaze and smile.
Maybe even wink, if you're good at that.
Another crucial behavior you want to see in your potential hookup before you go in for the kill is that she keeps looking back at you. If she's made eye contact more than twice and smiles at you, she wants you to go up to her.
So go for it!
Another important way you could improve your chances of having one night stands with any woman you want is to always go out with a group of friends; but not too big a group.
Why do I say this?
Well, if you're by yourself in a bar, club, party, or wherever it is you go to meet women, you're only going to give off creeper vibes.
Who goes out by themselves to pick up women and actually succeeds?
That's right, no one.
If you're with a group of 3-5 friends, this gives you better chances at hitting on a girl who's also with her friends because while you're chatting her up, your friends can keep hers company.
Who know, al of you might even get lucky.
Another hack you may not have thought of is to go to unusual spots to pick up women.
Sure, you can always bet you're going to find hot girls at the bar, but think about all the other places they could be.
You see beautiful women practically everywhere, and many of those women are single.
You see them at the grocery store, on campus, at the mall, fast food joints, and restaurants, etc. Practically anywhere in your town people your age go.
My point is, don't limit yourself to only hitting on women for one night stands in the club or bar; step out of your comfort zone and try your luck at the farmer's market, the local bodega, or anywhere else you encounter the next beautiful woman you see.
Now, arguably the most important hack to get you laid the first time you meet someone is to set the tone right away and let them know what you want.
Being flirtatious, in the right way, can set you up for a one night stand perfectly. That gets rid of the confusion, games, and ultimately, failure in achieving a one night stand.
People try too hard not to seem interested in someone when they are, leaving the other person confused, and feeling like you're not into them, so they don't take things further.
However, if you're trying to hook up with someone you just met that SAME night, you're going to have to leave subtlety at the door.
For a woman, there's nothing sexier than a man who knows what he wants. You have to show her you desire her, but don't overdo it.